Half plus Better-half makes lute

I am restless, my throat is aching, I just had my lunch, so cant go off to run, so I wanted to blog…I need to blog..a stupid rush of silent restlessness is creeping in.. What will I blog about.. An idea popped, about what it will be if I marry somebody.
Ok.
The stupidity begins.
My mom frantically wants to see me get married, more importantly-the girl of her choice. As it is the case in any conservative Indian household. My dad wont dare to speak up against my stubborn mom, the same happened with my sister and my brother-they got married in their respective youth. My brother was engaged at my current age. (My real age, not the age I look like)
But me, the story is slightly different, at least I hope so.
So my mom thinks that I should too be engaged by now. I had gotten off my mom’s hook at the age of 15, when I moved to Thrissur for my higher secondary schooling. After that I haven’t been home for more than a fortnight continuously. Seems like my Maternal Grandpa had predicted that I will not be home from 15 to 36. My mom told me this, so I don’t believe it. But it is true until now. So, my mom haven’t really gotten a glimpse of what is happening in my life. I have hid about all the girl friends I have had from my mom, she has some doubts and hints, but nothing is clear to her… ha ha ha.. But still she want to make sure that I marry a girl of her own choice the way she wants at the place she thinks is right at the proper time after consulting astrologers and other elders.
No belligerent remarks on that ideology. LOL.
Right now, she is sad that she had to sent me to America without ‘FIXing’ me to some girl. My aunts are even more sad about that fact. It is a different story that they won’t understand that there are 3 other guys elder than me who is unmarried in my mom’s extended family.
So, I have got hints that she had already decided on some girl who is doing her bachelor’s back in India. Poor Girl. Poor me.
So, I am worried about going to India to confront my mom and possibly that poor soul. First of all, I have no notion to get married. Secondly, I have no notion to marry someone my mom decides. My claim is that she chose my sister in law and she doesn’t like her(at least she won’t accept that!) So she will hate the person she chooses for me as well. I kind of have a girl friend now, but marriage is commitment which scares me. It takes either lot of nerve or raw courage or ignorance to marry somebody. I don’t have any of those(So, I claim!).
Apart from that, marrying a stranger of my mom’s choice is like having ice cream with Biriyani toppings, Both are good. But not recommended together. So if I go home, and if I endure a bride viewing ceremony as the purported American groom(which is wrong in every sense, just like calling Native Americans as Indians) I will be in for some surprises.

One of the ironies of the relation will be that, I will be a better cook than her, rest of them, I can’t say or predict, since I don’t know anything about that soul whom I don’t want to marry.
Hopes my mom understands this and gives me a wild card.

-A Bachelor

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T.H.E E.N.D Chronicles of a Hiker-III

This has nothing to do with the new album of Black Eyed Peas!

 

I started hiking in the summer of 2009 to be precise on April 20th on the middle cottonwood creek in the Bridger mountains. I had been hiking Bridger, Hyalite and Gallatin areas since then. Most of the hikes I have done is along with Devil including the first one on the middle cottonwood. We decided to finish out hiking by going to Hyalite peak on the weekend of 3rd October . But as the events turned out yesterday,( I started writing this blog on sep 27th) we decided that it should be our last hike together so as to have a fitting end to a beautiful summer of hikes, accomplishments, doubts, arguments and many other things.  So, the hike of yesterday was a 20mile trail called as the Bridger ridge trail, where the most rugged technical 20mile trail race in the whole world occur. You can find more information on this link about that race. It is definitely the most difficult terrain to run on, even to walk on. With knife sharp edges of the ridge with shale, limestone, sandstone and volcanics, this is definitely a rugged terrain. Before I begin my account on the hike, I would like to mention few other topics I thought was apt for this hike. 1) “Why do we torture ourselves?” 2) “Is there a trail really up there?” 3) Elements.

Ok! So, In the morning of Saturday the 26th Sept, I woke up around 5a.m, I was feverish and Pukish and wasn’t in the best of my health. Devil came and she was pretty much ready and she was sad to see me in my sad state. I took sometime to get myself together and was a bit late than our purported time to leave Bozeman. But I got ready and once I had 2 Bananas and few glasses of hot water, I was ready and geared to drive to the Sacagawea trailhead. I hate to drive in that road, its an unpaved 7 mile stretch from the US-86 highway. The total distance from home is 25miles. We reached the trailhead around 6.30am. The sunrise was around 7-7.15a.m. We had hoped to catch it on top of Sacagawea Peak, But that seemed impossible then. We got ready and started the hike at 6.50a.m and on our way to Sacagawea peak in the Canyon, we saw the most prettiest sunrise ever.

The weather prediction for the day was windy and partly cloudy. The wind was already on our face at the base of the summit on the eastern side. It was a chilly morning, I had 3 sets of clothing in me, But it was just the beginning. As we started hiking towards the Sacagawea satiated by the gorgeous sunrise ever seen. We also witnessed a herd of Mountain goats on their way to north side of Bridger,  we witnessed a total of 40-50 goats on this whole hike.

The 3 layers of clothing seemed less. The problem with the wind is that it robs the moisture from your body so fast that you will feel dehydrated and tired quite fast. Once we reached the saddle between the Hardscrabble and Sacagawea peak, the wind from the west side was so strong that, we were having second thoughts about this 20mile hike.

 

It was our second hike to Sacagawea, but this one was more demanding with very less food on the stomach and the inclement weather was not helping either. Once we reached Sacagawea peak, it was so windy that it was hard to stand. The peak is so short of space that there is no place to sit because of sharp rocks and shales. We had planned to have breakfast at the peak, we figured it was impossible to have food there because of the wind. But luckily there was a rocky wall which prevented the wind to almost 100% on the east side. There was absolute silence in there to have a peaceful breakfast witnessing the sun rise above the horizon and with the a priori effect of wind oozing behind us.

Once we finished the breakfast, we felt lazy and wanted to sleep, as the thought of standing up in the wind itself was grueling. We got up and continued our journey to Nayanuki peak, as this entire trail is on the ridge.

Once we went pass the peak, we reached a saddle where we had to go downhill for a while just to cross the Ross peak, as it was impossible to climb Ross Peak without climbing gear. We witnessed few more Mountain goats on our way to Ross pass. My right knee was hurting during that stretch, I had to pop two ibuprofen pills and Icy-hot balm to keep me going. We were constantly hydrated with Gatorade, water, Oranges and life saving Saliva.

Once we reached Ross pass, We were heading towards Saddle peak, with the name, I felt it would be easy, trust me it was the most brutal Peak in the whole hike.

The problem with the Saddle peak was that it is deceitful. When we were climbing, we felt we had reached peak every now and then, but only to witness the trail leading uphill even more. But once we reached the peak, the trail continued on rocky terrain which I can’t imagine to walk on, forget running.

With the whole hard terrain, I don’t want to forget to mention the views from those peaks which were breathtaking and left us at awe whenever we paused to get our breath in those elevation where the air density is also low. In between Devil used to ask me “Why do we torture ourselves..?” I would try to explain her in my stupid convincing rhetorical manner everything else other than the answer to such a question.

The saddle peak went on and on, The hard terrain kept on testing us. We had our first set of our lunch in there, since we decided to have it in two phases so that, we will be light and we won’t feel bloated. At certain places in the Saddle peak, we didn’t have any clue where to go, it was easier in a sense because we just had to follow the ridge, but the question remained, “Is there a trail really up there..?” We had to take few steps just to see whether it heads to the steep valley, the deep chasms or the actual ridge. Once we had the first set of lunch and set out, we were awaited by the Bridger peak. The famous Bridger bowl ski resort is situated there on the east side of the peak. The resort had 2 or 3 lifts all the way up to the peak, we hadn't seen a single human till then, but we saw few on the top of lifts who just came up by the lifts. We didn’t have any conversation and all, as they were a bit far as well.

Once we completed the entire Bridger peak, which spanned for some distance and took us couple of hours. We reached the end of Bridger peak, We were witnessing the steep climb to Baldy mountain, the one which you can see as twin bald mountains in the picture above. We had our second phase of lunch there and took a pretty long rest of about 15-20minutes. The wind was still strong from the west, whenever we were in the woods, the wind was a bit soft, whenever we were in the open, it was unrelenting.  For the entire day wind was blowing, thankfully the temperature was not low as it was in the morning, which made me and devil shed our clothes two one or two layers.

The Baldy mountain was standing like an immovable object unfazed by the wind and the erosion which has been happening for years. what it definitely achieved was to lower my confidence as it posed a strong threat. But it wasn’t deceitful like Saddle peak, and it wasn’t tough either.

Another thing, I wanted to mention was the power of elements, I was witnessing the power of wind, constantly blowing, making small increments at a time in order to erode rocks and what not, constantly tiring us, constantly reminding us to take each step carefully else we will be in the gorges. Wind(Air)-I salute you

We were witnessing Earth at it’s very best, Mountains in all directions, To south lied the Gallatin and Madison range, to north lied the Elkhorn Mountains, to East lied the Crazy mountains, and to west the beautiful Absaroka range and we on top of the Bridger range. No wonder MSU has a caption “Mountains and minds” The impact Mountains create on human mind is truly mesmerizing. Also, sages go to the Himalayas for whatever they are seeking and not to Goan beaches. Earth-I salute you.

On the west side, we could see the power of water all along the range, the erosion clearly visible from the top, making gorges, canyons, creeks, rivers and streams cleaning everything. The most powerful of the elements, the most patient, the most subtle of all, the soothing water, the element where life begins. Water- I salute you.

We could see the devastation created by a major fire which had broken out few years back and the remnants were still there, but I wasn’t ready for what I was going to witness. The dry fall evening which was windy to make matter worse had ignited fire on the west side of Bridger range. Fear was the first emotion which came to my mind. It seemed small in the beginning just like any inferno, but the wind was not helping. We were climbing the Baldy by then, I stopped in between and dialed 911 to inform them of the raging fire.

The newspaper link. I was disturbed by the turn of events. My camera stopped working at that point. Not before me catching a snap of the beginning stage of the fire. Fire-I  salute you as well.

We were so disturbed that, we went on a wrong trail from Baldy Mountain, but it took some time for us to realize that. Once we figured out, it was too late to go back to the trail, as we lost elevation pretty fast. The Steep downhill climb was bad as well. We had covered around 16miles or so until we had reached Baldy mountain, We had steady drop of elevation from there to the M in 4 miles. But suddenly we were in some unknown canyon. Our initial guess was that we were in Sypes canyon. We kept on continuing the trail, it was getting darker, and spookier, I had to keep on talking to shoo away any bear. Devil got tired of my stupid non-stop banter.

 

We witnessed a huge herd of Mountain goats here as well, few of ‘em at close proximity. Sadly, my camera was not working then. We were constantly losing elevation. We reached a very familiar spot. It was not familiar, but something was very eerie about that place, some kind of resemblance. We kept on continuing on trails we felt as the right one. Some odd calculations took us forward. She mentioned that it must be middle cottonwood creek trail, I didn’t rule out that possibility, as Sypes Canyon, and Canyon of Middle cottonwood where next to each other. As we proceeded, the familiarity increased. We were skeptical, but after some point, the familiarity was so high that, we couldn’t avoid that possibility, After some more distance, a mark post was standing which removed all our doubts. The same mark post we had seen 5 months back. There was snow all the way 5 months back, but it was dry fall now, that gave us the teasing familiarity. We were surprised, elated and more than that relieved, as the post revealed that the trail head was just a mile away. We reached the trail head, but the person supposed to pick us up was expecting us one hour back at the M trail head, We had to continue walking to get hold of somebody to pick us up, it took another hour, we walked and walked to for almost an hour. The total duration we had walked was 13 hours. The total distance just under 25miles(rather than the planned 20miles). We reached home around 8.30pm.

Exhausted. Blisters. Worn muscles.

We had gulped 6 bottles of Gatorade, 4 bottles of water, few oranges, 6 Ibuprofen, Lot of Icy hot, 4 Sandwiches, 4 Bananas down. 

We thought that this should be our last hike, as it was a fitting end for a wonderful summer of hikes. By chance, it snowed 2 days later, making it impossible to hike to Hyalite peak, the next weekend. No qualms. The same snowfall extinguished the fire that broke out after raging for 2days. Thanks to snowfall for a change. Devil had to get a ride next day morning first thing to bring her car back from the trailhead, where she saw rangers evacuating any campers, as there was a possibility of fire spreading through the region.

As this hike posed a fitting end to the number of hikes, I selected this title over others, though all of ‘em would have suited well.

-Santhosh

P.S. There may be some inaccuracies in the blog, as I am writing it down a month after.


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Was there a log on our way up..?!? Chronicles of a hiker-II

So, after that eventful hike to M, we repeated the hike to M, in fact all the way up to ridge the next day along with 2 other friends, sad part was that the sunset wasn’t as impressive, but it was full moon, and the view of the moon was inexplicable in the mountain pass. Simply breathtaking! But this blog is not about that hike, but about a hike in the Hyalite region.
Next day, I just played tennis along with V and some random shopping with the devil, and there was no hiking then, and We( Me, Devil, Ram) had already decided to go to hyalite lake on the Sunday, September 6th. This blog is about that hike, We left home at 3pm rather than the pre decided time of 1pm, and we started the hike from the trail head at 3.30pm. Its a 5.5 mile hike to the hyalite lake which goes along the creek and the hyalite canyon all the way. There are 11 waterfalls in the way, most of them very small but pretty and picturesque. There is hyalite peak which has an elevation of 10,298feet just 2miles away from the lake. So, we hiked with all kinds of conversations and stopping just to pee or take pictures at the falls or to grab an orange from the backpack.
We didn’t see all the falls, as few of them were off the main trail, and we didn’t want to spent time as we had already started the hike a bit late(Btw, the sunset for the day was around 8pm, steadily dropping in the fall season smile_sad). The trail wasn’t very hard but rocky and wet at places and with logs and steep climbs intermittently, with small signposts for direction to falls.
The creek flowing with the rustling noise along its path washing everything on its path and falling into fissures, chasms, creating gorges and all the way towards its destiny leaving some elegant views on its path. All three had had a late breakfast, so we were starting to get hungry towards the end of the upward hike. As we had gained some real elevation after 4 miles or so, everyone was tired, but the view towards the Hyalite reservoir  along the canyon was a perfect “U”  with dense pine tress in the Gallatin National forest. The picture was taken where what must have been a glacier or something. Anyways, the view was panoramic.
Just after 5.30pm we reached the Hyalite Lake, It was not as beautiful as the Lava lake or the Fairy lake, but the hike was pretty and the ridge that stood next to the lake was pretty magnificent.
We were all tired, but since it was 5.30pm,  I had an urge to go all the way to the peak, since I believed that I won’t be hiking this trail again esp with the Devil, So I convinced her and started hiking, But Ram stayed behind at the lake, and he told that he will have his lunch and that he wanted to have some solitude. So we, me and devil continued the hike, I believe she was cursing me all the time, but a returning hiker from the peak told that he spotted a mountain goat, that inspired her a bit and we proceeded to view my first Wild mountain goat.
The mountain goat was probably getting herself to the other side of the ridge in a very difficult terrain. After some 1.2miles or so, Devil was dead tired, she stopped and asked me to proceed alone in the trail, on a condition that I won’t go out of sight, So she started to have her lunch at around 6pm( Croissants, pickle and Orange). So, I was there climbing one of the most steepest trail in a very hard terrain. We had initially promised Ram that We will be back at the lake by 6.45pm to 7pm. So, I was there almost on top of the ridge where the peak was around 500yards away, It was getting very late, around 6.45pm, I started to hike down from the ridge after satiating with the wonderful view from there, it took me around 20minutes to hike down which I had hiked just in say 5-10 minutes. The terrain was so difficult that, I had to take each step carefully. That was the main reason for the delay.
 
The view from the ridge was worth the pain on my right knee and the slow hike down the ridge, So, I had my lunch at around 7pm on our way back to the hyalite lake, was literally tired, thanks to Gatorade and the electrolytes it supplied. So we reached the lake at 7.15-7.20pm and Started to hike back. Devil was getting tensed about the hike down, as it will get dark quite fast in the mountains, I too figured that we were a bit late, but there was enough light then and I figured light will remain till 8.30pm, and we can reach the trail head at 8.45pm to 9.00pm in dim light.( I was wrong!).
So, the first half an hour, till 7.50pm, the light was pretty good, we were losing elevation pretty quickly. That was good news, So, Devil was leading, and I was behind her, say 20-30yards, and Ram was further 20-30yards behind me. She was nervous about the light factor, and my knee was getting better from the Icy-hot which I applied at the lake. Thankfully the evening was not cold, it was warm, and all three of us were in our shorts. At around 8pm, the sunset was happening behind the mountains, sun was not there and the light was also dimming very quickly, I caught up with Devil and we having hiked a lot, knew each other’s pace, strengths and style of hiking, So Ram was behind 50yards away from us. Both me and devil will stop every now and then and shout “Macha” and waits for his response and will continue our hike down once we hear his reply, at say 8.10pm, Light had faded completely proving my calculations wrong, We were still long way from the trail head, It was a scary situation, We asked Ram to speed up and catch up with us, and we started to run in intervals down the hill and hiked at a very fast pace.
After sometime, when we stopped to shout Ram, there was no response, I peed and we waited for him intermittently shouting his name as loud as we could. We got apprehensive, Fear started to mount inside us, we waited for full five minutes and still we couldn’t hear his voice. We decided to speed up to the trail head, and ask for emergency help if needed from there(BTW, there is no mobile service at the trail head either, we will have to drive 10miles to get signal) We started to climb down with fear and all sorts of thoughts ranging from he getting lost and a possible bear attack.
The adrenaline had started to rush, and the woods were getting darker with each second, after some point of time, We couldn’t see anything apart from the faint trail and the rocks on the trail(rather we weren’t looking anywhere else) there wasn’t any wind, so the pine trees weren’t making much noise to scare us. The hike trail which occasionally  adjoined the creek will treat us with the sound of flowing water. After 8.30, it was black, pitch black. It was hard to see the trail, and devil was dead tired, and both of us could go further only because of our adrenaline rush. All the time, I wasn’t showing her the fear I had in my mind, Coz, She was already frightened, And I was the only source of courage for her, I started to talk encouraging words to her, but she was so tired and frightened and was slipping and tumbling by hitting the rocks and roots on the trail. I was hoping that I don’t get any injury, as I can even lift her to the trail head if she gets an injury, but its not a very amiable situation the other way.
We were happy to see each sign post with the help of light from the mobile phone, idea of using mobile phone as the source of light to hike was not very good as it can reduce our pace very much as We had sticks in our hand, a backpack, and I was holding her with one hand of mine as she was sagging all the way, I had to take the man’s role in here, providing her the comforting words and keeping my own self together. The dark objects in the trail was least friendly. The bottom side of the uprooted pine trees seemed like black bears which skipped few heart beats. It was 8.45pm, Pitch black, then there was a log on the trail, it seemed unfamiliar, She shouted and asked me “Was there a log on our way up..?!?”, it scared the shit out of me, I couldn’t recall either, we were worried that we are on a different trail, I convincingly lied to her that, “Yea it was there” and added that “we even saw dogs up here..!, don’t you remember?”
The adrenaline is man’s(read animal’s) best friend. If there wasn’t such an emergency system in our body, We couldn’t have survived our hike back. The adrenaline rush during those testing times was the most I’ve had in years. It suspended my digestive system, was pumping more oxygen and blood to my legs, arms, brain and improving my reflexes. I guess men are better equipped to handle tough situations and more adrenaline is produced in them than the women(I guess..!) I was literally dragging her, and we finally saw the Grotto falls sign, We were relieved, as it was the last falls but we knew that “its not over until its over” It was still 1mile from the trail head and the fear of Ram was also strolling in our heads, But since I knew that he is sensible kept my hopes up. After 9pm, she was staring at the stars and I was dragging her towards the trail head, she was enjoying the craziest hike she had done and feeling good about the fact that somebody is taking care of her and also the night sky above her head.
We reached the trail head at 9.10pm. There was faint light from the night sky, we opened up the car and took deep breathe and parked the car towards the trail with the headlight ON. We had decided to wait for half an hour before we went looking for emergency help. But after 12-15minutes, There was two eyes visible in the trail, It scared the shit out of us, I alternated between the Dim and bright light to scare if it was an animal, It turned out to be the reflection from Ram’s Backpack, We both left a sigh………!
Ram came inside, and we were driving back reminiscing the turn of events during the downhill hike, and we went onto to see the bright moon over the hyalite reservoir and cursed it why it couldn’t rise when we needed the light most.
-A hiker on his way to Sacagawea peak..!

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Why did you take the path on the right? Chronicles of a Hiker-I

 

M trail(M standing for Montana or MSU) is a popular and one of the most used hiking trail around Bozeman. Even after being here for a year and being a regular hiker I hadn’t hiked to the M. One and the only reason is that I thought just like my friend Ram that the trail was too gay.

These days I love to run and I haven’t hiked in a while, so I used to run for around 3miles every evening. But when my cherished hiking partner Devil mentioned about hiking to M, I kinda said yes, and we were on our way after cancelling the RUN, also it was a prep for the big hike to Sacagawea peak we had planned for the next week.

So, there were three paths to the M. Strenuous, semi strenuos, and easy. Our decision was unanimous and quick to take the strenuous one. Since I wanted to run, I told her that I will run up the hill and will wait for her at the M. But the strenuos path was really strenuous, I ran for may be less than 200yards, I was done, the calf muscles couldn’t take it anymore and the hip was also hurting a bit. Even though the air was getting thinner with elevation I hiked the rest of the trail at a fast pace.

Towards the end of the trail, there was a fork, left one leading to the base of the M, and right one all the way to the Baldy summit with intermittent paths to left leading to the M. I didn’t know all this then. But out of instinct, I took the left( as I always used to do when I was a teenager playing wolf-3d or quake and when I am supposed to take a left or right)

So, I reached the base of M, exhausted more because of the run and I was sipping the Gatorade( the only thing I had, other than my clothes) So I sat in the bench waiting for her. After may be ten or twenty mintues, she was still missing. So rather than sitting there like a jerk, I thought I will go and look for her. So I left my Gatorade bottle and my T-shirt on the bench( as a mark) thinking that if she had taken the path on the right and if she reaches the M while I was climbing down on the path on left. Climbing down the strenuous path is not at all recommended and especially at the pace I was climbing down. I reached the junction after lot of slips and sliding, and I assumed that she had taken the path on right. I started to climb at a faster pace and kept sneaking through the small pine tress in those intermittent left paths just to check whether she was there anywhere near the M. I was getting a bit worried.

I was tired more than worrying and I kept on climbing on that path, at one point, I heard her shouting my name “SANTHOSH” I heard it exactly from the direction of M(cos of the wind direction or something), So, I started to go towards the M in the next left. I saw somebody on another path and he figured out that I was looking for somebody. He told that he saw her almost 300 yards from where I was up the hill. I ran back to the main Baldy trail and started climbing again, and I saw two other guys,  one almost immediately in the path, he told that she is still climbing up. I increased my pace only to pausein order to catch my breath. Then finally an old man, who told that she is pretty close. At that point she could hear my howls and she was climbing down. It was very revealing to see her, she was also worried just like me, but definitely less tired.

We figured out the confusion, and that she had gone on top of the M and she had shouted my name from there and that she hadn’t seen my T-shirt and the Gatorade bottle. I wanted to shout at her and take out on her, and why she hadn’t just gone to the M, she had wonderful justifications and logical reasons for the actions she took. Which won’t make sense to me, since it wasn’t my logic. But I was able to overlook the confusion and accepted her actions. At that point I was proud that I had matured a bit by refraining from shouting or being angry and just by asking “why did you take the path on the right?”

We walked back to the base of the M to view the best sunset I’ve ever seen, and we hiked back through the semi-strenuous one wondering If this puny Bridger mountains could bring out the character in me, how much can Himalyas bring out. Even though there is NO direct relation between the size of the mountains and the amount of wisdom it can provide, I just couldn’t imagining that thought.

No wonder all the sages and saints back in India went to the mountains for solace or salvation or wisdom or peace or serenity or for whatever they were searching for..!

-A hiker.


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Discontents of Secularism, Religion, Minorities-India and the World

India just celebrated its 62nd independence day on 15th of August, After 59 years of becoming a secular republic. India was blamed for being religiously intolerant. Is it true?

Is India that bad, Is women, people of various faith, minorities being oppressed under a tyrannic rule to be compared along with Somalia.
OK, The answer is a clear cut "NO", So I don't want you to read the rest of the essay in search of an answer.

First let me ponder about minorities.

Who is a minority in India, Let's take an example. ME. So, I can be a fair judge. I am a Male, Malayali, born to Hindu* parents. India's population is 1.192 billion, Kerala's 31million. It accounts for 2%. So, I am a minority based on my mother tongue, culture, state of Origin.

Having said that, I am a minority in the nation. Take the case of my own state, My parents are of Mannadiar caste which is a minor caste only present in the districts of south Malabar. I am a minority again. I am a male, In my state there are more women than men. I am a minority again. I went into the neighboring state of Tamil Nadu for my under graduation, The total number of Malayali was one(Me, though there were 3 others who could speak Malayalam) So the total percentage was less than 2%.

Am I a minority. Yes. If you call me that I am not, I am ready to argue and prove you wrong..!

Have I faced oppression, injustice in my state or my neigboring state where I have spent most of my life. The answer is NO.

So, there might be prejudices, views, and small set of oppression against different 1.192 billion group in India(Yes, proudly, The 1.192 group contains 1 individual each. That is the only possible way one can class Indians, or for that matter any person in the world. So I don't understand what minority is.If someone calls somebody a minority, by mere prejudice, then that person is either narrow minded opportunist for personal or political gain or is uninformed and ignorant.

Take a handful of sand, sort it based on anything(grain size, texture, color, smoothness, aesthetic values) You can classify and classify them to thousand groups. All are a sand grain. which may look similar but are different. It is stupid to call it different, but stupid to call it same either. Same applies to Humans.

Having said that, there are Darker Indians than Africans, Then there are Whiter Indians than Caucasians. Why am I mentioning it, Because, a person(celebrity named Neil Nitin Mukesh) was questioned of his Indian origin in the United states for being too white and Indian.
Is it absurd, stupid, ignorant or routine and normal? You decide!

There is an entire photo slide show(LINK) of celebrities being questioned and embarrassed in the United states Immigration for being of certain race, religion or country. If that is the case with celebrities, what about the poor common man.

If United States is called the land of dreams, I will call India where those dreams will ever get fulfilled, Slumdog millionaire was no accident, You can make it big in India, no matter what. Don't want to believe me, OK! Listen to what I have to say. I won't talk about Kalam, he is from one of the poorest districts of Tamil Nadu, Born Muslim went on to become scientist, Engineer, Indian president(People's President, India's Best president by a survey). I won't talk about him, because his faith or place of birth is no way disadvantageous to what he want to become in INDIA.




I won't talk about Azim Premji, he is a Muslim, in fact the richest Muslim in the world, richer than the oil czars in the Arab countries, he is humble, he travels in economy class, drives corolla, he is a Muslim, he is an Indian. The point is he made it big.

I won't talk about the women president we have, I won't talk about the women prime minister we had. India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka and Bangladesh have had women head in their state. in less than 60 years of being a republic. How many women presidents have ruled U.S in their 220 year history. The answer is a sad zero. Japan-Zero, France- Zero( they have had a women prime minister, though the powers are with the president), Italy- Zero.

Notably, first women prime minister of the world was from Sri Lanka and the second from India.


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Surprised?(LINK)

I won't talk about the current chief justice of India, who is a Dalit, I won't talk about the Sikh prime minister we are having who is currently in his second term who is the most educated prime minister ever in any part of the world.

Being an Indian had never meant being disadvantageous, I hope it stays the same way. By telling this, I am not negating any fact of few anti-social, anti-human people who are roaming in every society in the world. India is no exception.

I won't talk about thousands of other proud Indians who have made it big,  because the truth is loud and clear.

To talk about Secularism, first of all it is a loose term. For me, it is the absence of Government intervention in a person's choice of faith. So, Government of India is secular. For me the United States is a bit shaky in that respect. Don't believe me, just take a look at the Link(A reference cited in Wikipedia)

How did Indians fair against incoming religions along with being the birthplace of religions like Buddhism, Sikhism and Jainism. Jews came to India since 700 B.C, But a major emigration occurred when Jews came to South India in 70 C.E after their Temple was demolished.

Zorastrianism came to India in a similar manner to Western India when Sassanid empire was overthrown by Islamic rule.




Both the religion were fondly received.

Christianity came to India along with Thomas the apostle before it reached parts of Europe in 52 C.E.

Islam came to India much before the Islamic invasion through north west. Islamic merchants came and settled in southern India where they have settled and have molded the culture.


How can such a country be religiously intolerant. And how is any country judge of any other country especially when the judging country itself is not perfect. India had been a melting pot of cultures for eons.

When the USCIRF put India on the watch-list (LINK) , I was surprised and shocked, which even prompted me to write this. Yes, India had religious riots recently once in 2002 in the state of Gujarat and another in 2008 in the state of Orissa. Please read what information PTI has to offer(LINK) about US putting India in the watch-list based on violence in Orissa. Another sad part was that the panel of USCIRF consists of majority Christians, few Jews and few Muslims. None from outside the Abrahamic religions.

India is growing, healing itself from 3 wars, years of foreign rule and sad but horrible terrorist attacks. to be more safe, proud and spiritually elevated country. But U.S too needs to grow, just like by bringing Obama to power, shunting of the prejudice that US is a racist white dominated western power, US needs to grow more on moral grounds more on secular grounds, these kind of baseless remarks are not going to help in that direction.

-A proud Indian and a world citizen on the day after staying outside India for 365days, On the week after Indian Independence day, On the week after USCIRF put India on the watchlist, On the day after one of my best friend's birthday, On a Wednesday.
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Stress…

 

Ok, I may be a mechanical Engineer by education, but I am not worried about mechanics or stress points or other internal forces in a continuum when I am blogging.

I had had a stressful week behind me, nothing new, I have had that in the past as well just like billions of my fellow human beings. Wikipedia and WHO claims or mentions that stress is formed when human beings fail to tackle emotional or physical threats properly. I dunno what the heck that means..! Just like any other problem, it is a manageable situation until we confront it, When one confronts, he’ll recoil, panic and the bravery is all locked up in the closet.

V mentioned in his status msg(gtalk) that “Harder it is, Harder you get…LIFE”

Hmmm, its true just like many of the thousand motivational posters you see being posted all over the various campuses and workplaces. Something yesterday night reminded me of an ancient Chinese curse, it goes like this…

“May you live in interesting times”, I had read that in some book, I don’t remember which one. But the point is that I used to wonder how can that be a curse, I used to think if it was all peaceful and serene, it’ll be boring too. Some part of me still don’t think that is a curse, But right now, we are living in an interesting time. The great Global recession of 00’s is definitely an interesting time.

Oops, I have wavered a lot from what I wanted to write, I was going to write some stress relaxation methods I use,  I am not following a 1$ magazine for that purpose. LOL, anyways, Many people follow various different techniques they find comfortable,  it varies  from solitude or meditation to Dancing or long distance running. Depends on how you want to release it. Mine are rather simple(I’d like to believe so), they include Running, Oh man! There is no way to express the pleasure of releasing sweat. Secondly By Cleaning, whether that is dishes, my room or just anything, it cleans up you heart and soul as well. (At least, it has worked for me), and Finally, to write, I don’t publish all of that is another reason.  It helps to crib about about something which you may have no control over. To vent out the anger on something that won’t shout back at you. LOL.

Is summer over? It’s cold outside.. :(

-Santhosh K Ramachandran


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Obama, Utah trip, Relations..!

 

You might be wondering, what has Obama got to do with Utah trip, and what Utah trip got to do with relations. Even I would have wondered If certain things hadn’t happened with me. I am pretty good in keeping promises, whether that be time or other small things especially between friends.

Still what the hell did Obama do to you..?

If you are in India or had been to India and if you are not a VIP, you would have encountered difficulties because of VIPs, Whether that be cavalcades, processions, gatherings or just any small meeting attended by a VIP( read Politician, Celebrity or any VIP who loves  making hullaballoo..)

Still what the hell did Obama do to you?

Bozeman is a small town, with very little crime, comparable population to my home town of Ottapalam back in India, has all the basic amenities, even though its not a big tourist center in the eyes of an average American, It is in the lap of some exotic and and extraordinary tourist location.

Cut the Crap, What the hell did Obama do to you..?!?

Ok! He didn’t do anything to me directly, He is visiting Yellowstone Nat’l Park (World’s Oldest national park) this week, So for any visitor, Bozeman is the center to arrive and roam around Rocky mountains, Three national parks are in close proximity namely Yellowstone, Glacier and Tetons. Apart from that hella lotta camping, fishing, climbing, hiking, trekking, biking, rafting, canoeing, skiing, snowboarding places are there around Bozeman. With headwaters of Missouri at a close place. Apart from that there are lot of mountain ranges, national forests around Bozeman. Having said that, Bozeman is a favorite destination for all kinds of outdoor activities whether that is in the summer or winter.

Ok, so Obama came to picture, But still you are not making any sense!!!

The thing is that, I had planned to go to Utah(Arches Nat'l park and Canyon lands Nat'l park) from Thursday to Sunday. The plan was made almost 3 months back by me and one of my friend ‘X’. We were trying to rope somebody into the plan and be the 3rd person for the trip, We(me and ‘X’) wanted a 3rd person coz, ‘X’ can’t drive, so driving 1500 odd miles was my job, So the 3rd person was a convenience. We couldn’t find a 3rd person, but last week another friend of mine say ‘Y’ agreed to join the trip after little hesitation in his car. I was all hopeful and was gearing ready for the trip. But over the weekend, ‘Y’ showed some hesitation to the trip owing to personal reasons. I was sad and asked him on Monday for an ultimatum and his answer was “NO”. I wasn’t angry at him or anything, as his reasons were genuine and there is nothing much I can do to compel him, also he even offered his car for the trip as getting a rental was difficult in the end. I wouldn’t do that. Period.

But the problem was that I was reluctant to confront ‘X’ with the issue. Also ‘X’ and ‘Y’ were strangers. So, that didn’t help either. I confronted ‘X’ on Tuesday and told him the matter, just to try our luck, we checked for rentals. Luckily we found one car, that too at a cheaper rate than last week. We were all excited again, I was ready to even drive 1500 odd miles just by myself to keep up my promise and also I wanted to see Arches.

The week was already hectic, there were few personal issues as well, the work was not pretty good either, with my software giving me all sorts of issues, from licensing issue to memory issues to even my own ignorance issues. So the week wasn’t going pretty well. So I had booked the car at 11.45 in the morning. I was frying my head for a meeting with my Prof, so that I can be set to leave for the trip, I had even turned my phone to silent mode to concentrate on work. I checked my phone at around 6.30pm, And I had a voicemail from the rental company at around 5.15pm.

The voicemail said, that bcoz Obama is coming to Bozeman, he would need lots of cars, so they had to cancel my reservation. They did include “sorry” though, as if that was going to help in anyway. I was shocked, First, I thought someone was playing bluff. I heard the voicemail again and again to believe what I heard. I messaged my friend explaining the situation, He just replied with a “Thanks”. I was sad for myself and for him, coz we had been planning this trip for 2-3 months. The next day, the work was even more hectic, and my friend ‘X’ who had told that will come over to discuss the trip didn’t turn in. I messaged him today on facebook asking him, he could have still dropped by even though the plan was canceled. I was devastated by the reply, He didn’t use any harsh words or the tone wasn’t rude. But it hurt. Coz, he felt that I cheated him. He has his reasons to feel bad which are 100% right. But the reasons he had to blame me for cheating was 100% false. That’s why I am hurt. I am hurt.

I lost a friend, more than that, I lost the trust of a friend. I want to blame somebody, I broke a bottle today, spilled water all over my office, I am devastated. I need to run. I need to run. Run…!

Somebody just called me ‘as I am finishing this post’ from airport having seen loads of Blackhawks and other aircrafts. Obama is here. Should I blame him, Should I blame lack of communication, Should I blame the rental company. Should I blame myself.

I need to release the stress. I need to run. I need to run. Run.

-A friend.


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